10 Things to Say to a Grieving Friend During the Holidays

Instead of Happy Holidays…

Say “I am here for you even if it is just to talk”

Instead of Merry Christmas…

Say “I just wanted you to know I am thinking of you this holiday”

Instead of saying are you okay…

Say “I wonder if you’d like to spend some time together over the holidays.”

Instead of Let me know if there is anything you need…

Say “Why don’t I bring over some treats for the kids and watch them for you while you take some time away” “

Instead of asking “Isn’t Christmas a magical time of year”…

Say “I am happy to help you shop or wrap presents for you.”

Instead of saying “I wish you joy and peace this holiday season”…

Say I am lighting a candle in honor of your loved one.